Hey there legendarypop,
Thanks for reaching out to the Apple Support Communities.
To get started, since noticing the issue have you or your wife tried restarting your devices? While restarting may seem like a simple step, it can often help with resolving some unexpected issues like this.
Give that a try with the steps shown here: Restart your iPhone - Apple Support
How to restart your iPhone X, 11, 12, 13, or later
1. Press and hold either volume button and the side button until the power-off slider appears.
2. Drag the slider, then wait 30 seconds for your device to turn off. If your device is frozen or unresponsive, force restart your device.
3. To turn your device back on, press and hold the side button (on the right side of your iPhone) until you see the Apple logo.
If the issue persists after restarting, we'd also recommend checking for any updates that can help with bringing the latest features, security updates, and bug fixes. For help with updating the iOS, check out this next link here: Update your iPhone or iPad - Apple Support
Keep us updated on the results.
Take care.