I'm not receving the ask for purchase notification from my childs ipad and hes unable to download apps

Hey shasell,

Thanks for posting. It looks like you've reviewed If Ask to Buy isn't working - Apple Support which is the best article for this issue. Were you able to complete the steps there? If so, and if everything is set up correctly as shown in Approve what kids buy with Ask to Buy - Apple Support, it may be best to reach out to Apple Support for more direct assistance.

Take care.