Hello,
I finally got it working. Completed the following steps:
While phone is not in car, removed the car setup from the phone in the following places. Suggest you do this a far distance from the car.
remove car from the following on the phone.
- WiFI
- Bluetooth
- Car play.
Finally, hard reset of the phone.
While the phone is not in the car, removed phone from car in the appleCarPlay
Hard reset of the computer in the car. Shut off car and waited 5 minutes.
Took phone to car, started setup process again from the car (Skoda). This time on the phone I got "please allow the car to access contacts, ...etc" answered yes.
This worked.
key is to do this while the devices can't communicate and continue to reconnect via Bluethooth, wifi or applecarplay.
good luck