Blocked but iMessage says Delivered?

My friend blocked me a few years ago after a falling out. I used her DM’s as a note and to save videos. Recently they started saying delivered again after not delivery status for a year. But sometimes it won’t say delivered while sometimes it does.


I’ve even called the number and sometimes it goes straight to voicemail with the weird message. And sometimes it rings for a bit before the ring.


Are they just blocking and unblocking me or am I overthinking it?

iPhone 15 Pro, iOS 17

Posted on May 29, 2024 12:26 AM

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May 29, 2024 12:37 AM in response to unkown288

Here's the thing about iMessage "Delivered":

  • Delivered doesn't always mean unblocked: It's possible your friend is still blocking you, and the "Delivered" notification is due to one of these reasons:
    • Timing: If you were blocked before, messages you sent then might not have shown as delivered. Now, the system might be catching up and delivering those old messages.
    • iMessage glitches: iMessage servers might be experiencing temporary delays or bugs, causing inconsistent delivery notifications.
  • Blocking and unblocking is less likely: While technically possible, it's uncommon for someone to repeatedly block and unblock you.

Here's what you can do:

  • Focus on the present: The key thing is the messages aren't going through now. It's best to respect your friend's boundaries and avoid further attempts to contact them.
  • Alternative methods (if appropriate): If there's a genuine need to reach out, consider a different method they haven't blocked, like trying email or a letter (if the situation warrants it).
  • Move forward: It's been a few years, so focus on your own well-being and move forward.


May 29, 2024 10:34 AM in response to Mindoo7

I understand that. But this has been consistent for a year now. Like for a week they’ll say delivered. Then some days not. Then it’ll go a month or two with no delivered, then a month with it. And whenever i call them with the delivered status, it goes through as normal. But when there is no delivered it goes straight to voicemail or twice before giving an error message.

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