Hello Jnorton3961,
Is the Apple Music Family subscription showing up for other members of your Family Sharing group?
If so, we recommend the following steps on your daughters device:
"On your iPhone, iPad, or iPod touch
- Go to Settings > [your name].
- Tap Media & Purchases.
- Tap Sign Out.
- Tap Media & Purchases again.
- Tap Not [your name]?, then sign in with the Apple ID that you use for Family Sharing.
On your Mac
- Open the App Store.
- In the menu bar, choose Store > Sign Out.
- In the menu bar, choose Store > Sign In.
- Sign in with the same Apple ID that you use for Family Sharing."
If you can't find your family's shared content - Apple Support
Signing out and back in can often times resolve issues like the one you've described.
Let us know how it goes! Take care.