Family member periodically loses Family status in iCloud+

There’s 5 accounts on the family plan including myself. I periodically get kicked off the icloud storage portion of the plan and my phone reverts back to the free 5GB plan. This results in me not being able to send or receive email, not being able to upload photos and documents, etc.

iCloud Drive storage seems to be the only thing effected.

all other services work as expected (news, arcade, music, TV). This happens about an hour after it starts sharing it with me, my bf has to go into his family sharing settings, as he is the organizer, and choose again to start sharing with me.

I have seen a few posts about this kind of thing but the only reply was to restart my phone or have the organizer stop sharing then share again but we’ve tried those

A couple notes:

-The organizer isn’t kicking me.

-No one else except the organizer has access to the settings to even kick anyone or change anything.

help.