Hi evad208,
To clarify, is the Focus active when this happens? Any specifications you set on a specific Focus only apply if that Focus is currently active. You can check your Focus and which one is toggled on under Settings > Focus.
If contacts are still getting through, ensure they don't have Emergency Bypass enabled under their Contact card:
"Allow calls from emergency contacts when notifications are silenced
You can allow sounds and vibrations from emergency contacts to come through even when your iPhone or notifications are silenced.
- Open Contacts
. - Select a contact, then tap Edit.
- Tap Ringtone or Text Tone, then turn on Emergency Bypass.
- Or, set up your Medical ID and identify an emergency contact.
Should you notice continued issues, try deleting that created Focus, then setting up another one. If the same thing happens with the newly created Focus, feel free to reach back out.
Cheers!