my iphone disabeld

Nothing. The only option is to erase the phone. If your device has iOS 15.2 or later installed, you can reset it without a computer; check out this link→How to reset your iPhone, iPad, or iPod touch when you forgot your passcode - Apple Support. Otherwise you will need a computer:

See this Apple support link→If you forgot the passcode on your iPhone, or your iPhone is disabled - Apple Support

Or watch this companion video ⬇️

After restoring the phone using one of the methods above you can restore your most recent backup.

If you are running iOS 15.2, this link may help you. Click on the blue link...

How to remove your iPhone, iPad, or iPod touch passcode without a computer - Apple Support

If you are using any other iOS, check this link...

If you forgot your iPhone passcode - Apple Support

That’s correct. Apple has absolutely no access to the contents of your phone. And if you think about it you wouldn’t want them to, because that would mean that there was a “back door” that anyone might be able to breach.

So that’s why Apple gives you multiple ways to back up and to sync data. But they can’t make you do it, they can only provide the capability.

Hello ~ Unfortunately this is your only way forward…

If you forgot your iPhone passcode - Apple Support

~Katana-San~