Software Update from Monterey to Ventura fails trying to Authenticate: "you need to be an owner"
I have read other threads on this topic but the recommended solution of using the following Terminal command is not a solution at all...
FIRST: allow Terminal Full Disk Access in System Preferences > Security and Privacy > Privacy > Full Disk Access, click the “+” to add Terminal which is in /Applications/Utilities.
SECOND: open Terminal, run this command, press Return, and if prompted enter your Admin password and hit Return again...
sudo softwareupdate -i -a -R
Although that Terminal command does indeed download Ventura, the only way I can install it is via the "Upgrade now" button in Software Update, which prompts me for my Mac's password, and fails every time. Everywhere else in the OS that asks for my Mac's password accepts my password without issue! Only MacOS Software Update fails to accept my password, first complaining that I am not an owner, which is ridiculous. Users & Groups show me as an Administrator!
So here's the complete story...
I have a 2TB USB-C SanDisk Extreme Portable 2TB SSD freshly formatted in Disk Utility (MacOS Monetary) as APFS. I used CCC to clone my 16" MBP's internal 2TB SSD to the SanDisk external in the normal way, which does not copy the OS over (i.e., it's not bootable). But as per CCC's instructions, it's possible to make that external bootable after the CCC copy is done, by simply installing MacOS. So I installed Monterey, which is what is on my MBP's internal SSD too. I was then able to boot from my SanDisk external drive just fine, and it's basically a bootable clone of my internal SSD. Everything works as expected except Software Update.
Why did I make a bootable clone? Because before I update my internal SSD to Ventura, I want to confirm all will be well on an external drive I don't care about. By testing a new OS on an external, I spare myself a lot of grief. That is why I made a bootable clone to the SanDisk external.
But like I said, Software Update in MacOS Monterey on the SanDisk external SSD complains I am not an owner, and that magic Terminal command line everyone is talking about doesn't do anything but download the Ventura installer to my drive. Where is that installer saved? I have no idea and Googling that info is a dead end.
So because I cannot find that MacOS Ventura installer app, I am forced to use System Preferences > Software Update > Upgrade Now. But like I said before, I cannot do that because it presents me with an authentication dialog. I type my password for the Mac correctly, yet the dialog shakes and rejects it! That is why I am posting here today.
I used Disk Utility's First Aid on my SanDisk external but it cannot find anything wrong.
Please tell me how I can install Ventura on my external SSD in light of this.
Thank you.
MacBook Pro 15″, macOS 10.13