MacBook Pro M2 Max calibrated color profile overwritten by default Retina profile on restart

I am trying to calibrate my retina display M2 Max 2023 MBP 16 inch, Sonoma 14.0, with my i1 display pro, and I have successfully calibrated and created a new color profile, however, upon shut down or restart, the color profile stops being used by my display preferences; there seems to be some kind of default profile that the display is reverting to. I just got this MBP and I did not have this kind of thing happening with my older model,as that model had easy peasy color profile options under the display settings, so I do not know how to approach using my i1 display pro to calibrate this retina display on the new m2 max. System settings > displays > built in display does not provide any color profile options. Only presets > currently apple xdr display (default p3-1600 nits). The built-in "calibrate display" option in the presets drop down menu does not detect my i1 display pro. I can use the colorsync utility to manually load my calibrated color profile, but again, upon shut down/restart, the calibrated profile fails to load, even though the calibrated profile is displayed as the "current profile!" the profile only loads correctly after I click the drop down arrow > other > and select the same profile again. Then the display loads the profile. There's no way I can do this every single time my mbp restarts, so what am I doing wrong, and how do I keep my display on the calibrated color profile? I don't know what this is all about so any information is helpful. Thank you.

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