itunes remote not connecting to computer

Greetings Wrlfl,

It sounds like you may be trying to sync your content wirelessly, from your PC to your devices. If so, check out the following steps:

"Sync your device over Wi-Fi

Here are ways to sync wirelessly when your device is on the same Wi-Fi network as your computer (the computer must be turned on):

• Connect your device to a charger and plug it in to an electrical outlet. Syncing begins automatically.
• In the iTunes app  on your PC, click the icon for your device, then click the Sync button.
• Add items to your device manually by dragging." Sync iTunes content on PC with devices on Wi-Fi

Should we have an incorrect understanding of the issue, consider offering additional details to help the community guide you to a resolution.

• What exactly is happening vs what you expect to happen.
• Any error messages you may see.
• Which iOS version you are using.

We hope this helps resolve the issue with your devices syncing.

Best wishes.

Hi Wrlfl,

Glad to hear that worked for you!

Have a good day.