family sharing thinks i am my daughter

Hi stellabella1,

We'll need a bit more information to determine the best steps to provide you with. Is there an error in the Family Sharing roles? Meaning, is your daughter set up as the organizer, an adult, or a parent/guardian when she should be set up as a child or teen? If so, you may find the information in this resource helpful: Types of Family Sharing members.

Removing family members

The organizer of a Family Sharing group can remove other members.

Also, any family member over the age of 13 can remove themselves from a family group at any time. Just select your name and then select Leave Family. You can also sign in to the Apple ID website and choose Remove Account in the Family Sharing section.

For security reasons, a child (under 13) account can’t remove themselves from a family and can’t stop sharing details such as Screen Time without the Screen Time passcode. The organizer has access to shared family content on your device, such as shared photo albums and shared calendars, and can view Screen Time activity.

Note: The organizer can’t remove themselves from the Family Sharing group. If you want to change the organizer, you must disband the group and have another adult create a new one.

If a member is removed or leaves the Family Sharing group, they keep purchases paid for using the shared credit card but they immediately lose access to other things the family members share:

• Other family members’ items no longer appear in the Purchased section of the iTunes Store, the App Store, and Apple Books.

• Protected (by copyright) music, movies, TV shows, books, and apps you previously downloaded are no longer usable if someone else originally purchased them. Other family members can no longer use this content downloaded from your collection.

• In-app purchases become unavailable if you bought them using an app someone else originally purchased. You can regain access to the in-app purchases by purchasing the app.

• Family members’ device locations don’t appear when you use the Find My app on iCloud.com or on your Mac, iOS, or iPadOS devices.

If you need more help, reply with some added details on the issue you've noticed. Also include information on how your Apple Music library has been affected.

Regards.