When I connect my iPhone I get a window showing "downloading 1 item" but nothing happens
When I connect my iPhone I get a window showing "downloading 1 item" but nothing happens. the message window just sits there. I have tried 'force quit' but there is nothing in the list that references the download window. Interestingly, if I then go to 'software update' via system information, that too freezes and I just get the spinner. This works when the "downloading 1 item" window is not showing. This is really annoying as every time I connect my iPhone to my MAC using the lightning cable this "downloading 1 item" window pops up and the only way to clear it is to restart my MAC. see dropbox link for screenshot.
iMac 27″, macOS 11.6