Can't "Trust this computer" with new iPhone 11
When I connect my new iPhone 11 to my Mac, the phone asks me to "Trust this computer" and then the next step is to enter the passcode as displayed on the Mac.
I can't get the passcode to display on the Mac.
I've made sure Xcode is up to date, and have the latest Mac OS. I've restarted the computer and phone several times. Itunes is not installed and seems to be no longer available via the App Store. That said, the passcode prompter works just find when I log into my iOS developer account.
Any ideas on how I can fix this?
Mac mini 2018 or later