Re:"Several events in my iCal calendars on my Macs, iDevices, and in iCloud have an asterisk behind them.
So does anyone have a clue why the asterisk shows up on these events?"
Sorry that I don't know for sure. Wondering if the asterisk could be caused by a particular app (eg: social media) that has access to your calendar in order to add events for you.
For MacOS Sequoia : The support article: Control access to your calendars on Mac - Apple Support
Eg: says:
You can decide which apps are allowed to use your calendar information.
- Choose Apple menu
> System Settings, then click Privacy & Security
in the sidebar. (You may need to scroll down.) - Click Calendars.
- Turn access to your calendars on or off for each app in the list.
- If you turn on access for an app, click Options to give the app full access to your calendars, or only allow it to add events to your calendars."
Note: There's more info. in the article itself.
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Else: You could try checking whether you notice something in common between those events marked with an asterisk. If so, that is a clue.
(Eg: could those * events all be in the same calendar / category, (ie: just like "Birthdays" can be a separate calendar / category).
For MacOS Sequoia: How to: Show or hide a calendar on Mac - Apple Support
Eg: says:
"You can choose which calendars you want to see":
"Choose View > Show Calendar List, then do one of the following:
- Show or hide a calendar’s events: Select or unselect the calendar’s tick box in the Calendar list.
- Show or hide events from all calendars: Press the Command key while you select or unselect any calendar’s tick box".
Useful resource: Calendar User Guide for Mac - Apple Support