The problem doesn't happen in Safe Mode. That means the problem is likely due to something that was installed.
You have installed and are running:
AVAST -- antivirus, VPN
SURFSHARK - antivirus, VPN
SAFENET -- more security software
Appcleaner -- "cleaning" app, not recommended
Antivirus extensions can cause myriad problems and interfere with the MacOS. Ventura has its MacOS on a read-only volume/snapshot, so neither you nor any software can modify it, except for an Apple certified OS installer.
VPNs are also not recommended, unless a properly configured one is provided by your employer for secure access. You have multiple VPNs running.
It is likely that having all this unneeded security software is interfering with each other, and also with the MacOS.
You should uninstaller every one of these programs and any other similar software. Use vendor-provided uninstallers so all the fragments of the software are completely removed.
Also, uninstall Appcleaner, which can cause damage unless you know exactly how to utilize it.
Some of the above extensions and software are repeatedly crashing, another indication that they are poisoning your computer. It is also possible that some of this crashing is also due to these software packages not being updated for Ventura. But I suggest that you completely uninstall them all.
Etrecheck also indicates you don't have backups. That is unwise, you have a computer that is misbehaving, yet no backups? You can use Time Machine, CCC, SuperDuper, or any number of other options.
