As Tom said, this is significantly related to library complexity, especially the number of clips in events. However, it does not indicate FCP is inherently unable to edit large projects using complex libraries. I have used FCP on libraries with 8,500 clips spread across about six events and another one with 5,000 clips in one event. It was relatively reliable.
This is a new problem that either began on Ventura 13.2 or got worse on that version. It is related to library complexity and can be identified by stack trace in the crash log that repeatedly lists this class and method: -[NSView _informContainerThatSubviewsNeedUpdateConstraints]
The crash log can be viewed using the Console app and clicking on "Crash Reports" in the left sidebar. Then, select Final Cut Pro in the middle pane, and in the lower pane, scroll down to see the log.
They are also in ~/Library/Logs/DiagnosticReports. They have a .ips suffix but can be viewed with Quick Look (select .ips file and press the space bar).
The only workarounds I'm aware of are reducing the number of clips per event to less than 300, removing Ventura 13.2 and installing 13.1 or even Monterey. Obviously, that is not possible on new machines that shipped with Ventura.
A few days ago, I filed a bug using the MacOS Feedback Assistant app, which included a simple replication scenario. I believe Apple knows about this and is working hard on the problem.