iMessages not syncing properly (deleting) between iPhone, Mac and iPad

Iphone - IOS 16.1

Mac - Ventura

Ipad - IOS 16


All three have been signed in using the same Apple ID, have iMessages turned on, etc etc


Any new message gets forwarded to all three devices

Any 'read' message too gets properly marked as read across three devices


Problem only with deleted messages

  • Message deleted on the Mac or iPad gets synced (deleted) between the two devices. The message will not get deleted on the iPhone
  • Similarly, any message deleted on iPhone does not get deleted on the Mac and iPad
  • Issue surfaced when I moved the iPhone to IOS 16 beta. Was perfect till I was on IOS 15; thought this will sort when the new releases are made..but looks like no luck for me


Have tried all solutions suggested across previous posts


A single instance of a proper sync is when I turn off and then turn on iCloud sync on the iPhone. After a few hours, the bad behaviour of not syncing properly resurfaces.


MacBook Pro 13″, macOS 13.0

Posted on Nov 1, 2022 01:39 AM

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Nov 1, 2022 01:49 AM in response to AnilBhatta

Messages on Mac and iPad are forwarded through an iPhone.


  1. On your iPhone, iPad, or iPod touch, go to Settings > Messages > Send & Receive. On your Mac, open Messages, choose Messages > Preferences, then click iMessage. Make sure that you're signed in to iMessage with the same Apple ID on all your devices.
  2. On your iPhone, go to Settings > Messages > Text Message Forwarding.


Since you said the same iMessages is not syncing on your mac/iPad there is only one possibility which I can think of is...


The same message is being received on multiple iPhones (more than one) which uses the same Apple ID. All the devices (iPhones) are forwarding the messages to Mac/iPad. Unfortunaltety there is no way of knowing which iPhone was used to forward the message to Mac/iPad.


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