how to get rid of JOIN button in FaceTime

Hi Glamarama,

Thanks for confirming that! We'd like to investigate this further. Please contact Apple Support using this link:

Contact Apple Support

Cheers!

Hi Glamarama,

Thanks for posting in Apple Support Communities. Are you on an active FaceTime call when this happens or where do you see the Join button?

If you see this in a group message, it can be expected if other group members have started a FaceTime call. Check out Use Group FaceTime on your iPhone, iPad, and iPod touch - Apple Support.

All the best.

Glamarama,

If you click through to the Contact Apple Support page one more time, try clicking "iPhone" and then "More". From that page, you can scroll down a bit and find FaceTime.

We hope this helps!