Trying to figure out if I have spyware or if someone has tapped my sms messages because someone keeps knowing things about me
A non-jailbroken phone cannot be hacked or have spyware. If you think your Apple ID was compromised, change your password.
See the following Apple articles:
Recognize and avoid phishing messages, phony support calls, and other scams
Recognize and avoid phishing messages, phony support calls, and other scams - Apple Support
If you think your Apple ID has been compromised
If you think your Apple ID has been compromised - Apple Support
Is there a way to know if your text messages are tapped?
