I want to update my phone I want the new update

It is available now already, at least people in the US have reported getting it.

Click on a link below for full instructions about how to update with wi-fi or 5G, or using a computer if you have storage or connectivity issues.

"Update your iPhone, iPad, or iPod touch" click here --> https://support.apple.com/HT204204

Or this video:

"How to update your iPhone or iPad" click here --> https://youtu.be/csJAEyvvruY

Want to update my phone

Did you read Limnos' post above? It explains how to update your phone.

Me too

I want my phone update automatically

Go to Settings/General/Software Update and turn Automatic Updates on.