My phone won’t update

Lots of folks are trying to download software right now, and the Apple servers are going to be busy. Lots of folks.

What to do here? You can wait for the download to progress. Or try again later.

What are you trying to update to?

BDAqua wrote:

What are you trying to update to?

Whatever the intended update might be, the just-released iOS 13.1 is prolly what will get downloaded. Eventually.

I figure you're likely right.