After some research, here's what I found:
(extracted from the built-in Apple app, Tips. You can also find helpful troubleshooting articles in there.)
If you set an alert to occur before a calendar event but aren’t receiving the alert in Notification Center,
- Make sure alerts aren’t turned off in Calendar settings. Go to the Calendar app
on your Mac, choose Calendar > Settings, click Alerts, then select “Show shared calendar messages in Notification Center” and “Show invitation messages in Notification Center.” - Make sure alerts aren’t turned off in Notifications settings. Choose Apple menu
> System Settings, then click Notifications
in the sidebar (you may need to scroll down). Go to Application Notifications, click Calendar, then make sure “Allow notifications” is turned on. - Make sure a Focus isn’t active when you want to receive alerts. See Turn a Focus on or off.
- Make sure event alert times are set correctly. Choose Calendar > Settings, click Alerts, then choose an alert time other than None for Events, All Day Events, or Birthdays.
- Make sure you set up the alert properly. See Set alerts for an event.
- If the alert is set to send an email, make sure your email address is correct in your card in Contacts. See Update contact information.
I am sooo sorry that your calendar is not working! It is a great free tool for people who keeps forgetting things (like me), but I guess my Mac skills are my weak spot 🫥
Best of luck to you 🍀