Encrypted iPhone Backup isn't accepting the right password
A while ago i tried to backup my iphone to my mac but couldn’t do it because my mac didn’t have enough space but i had already set a password, then i backed it up to my windows computer through itunes and set the same password. Saturday i backed my iphone to the same windows pc and tried to restore from backup and it said wrong password so i backed it up to someone else’s mac and even though i didn’t set a password this time it was encrypted, i clicked restore from backup and entered the old password, it accepted the password started the process but my phone got erased and went to the hello screen. I learned that it accepts any password but if the password is wrong it just erases the phone without a warning. I lost a lot of important data and i’ve been trying a lot of ways to find the right password. I looked to the keychain access and found nothing, i looked to the keychain access at my mac and found the same password ive been trying, i tried every password i have ever used. So what is the password now? I didn't set it, the other mac's owner never backed up an iPhone with encryption before so he didn't set it, it isn't in the keychain access , where did this password come from?
iPhone 12 mini, iOS 26