nueve_leon wrote: … This whole people tagging thing is a hot mess.
Right. And it all may change with the next OS.
That's why we don't just do face naming, but we include the names as Keywords. Face recognition is unique to a system, and there is no reliable universal method of including face names with the metadata in pictures. So if you send a picture to someone, or you keep a backup copy, it can have Keywords, but it won't include any of the effort you put into tagging those faces.
For me, I use Keywords for people who show up over and over .For people who don't show up much I include the names in the Caption rather than as a Keyword-- I just don't want so many Keywords.
So, I name the little circles on the faces, and Photos sends them into People albums. But then I open the People album, select them all, and add a Keyword for that person. And I do that for every album that has more than a couple of people in it. I am especially grateful that I do this when there is a new OS and bunches of the IDs disappear!
Searching by Person can be a bit flaky, as well. If I search for the person Richard, I get a bunch of people who are not me. If I search for the Keyword "Richard," then I get only me.
Name tagging is especially important for groups of people that you'll never keep straight without help.

But every one of the names above is in the Caption for the photo. My mother, grandmother, uncle, and some great-somethings are also Keywords, since I have several pictures with them in it. I'm pretty sure the dog's name is in the caption, too, but not a Keyword.