Re: Apple Music: Family Sharing group with my mom
Apple Music Family subscription doesn’t seem to apply to her account.
If needed: Add you mom to your shared subscriptions:
How to: Add a family member to your shared subscriptions - Apple Support
You mom may need to check that she is signed in to her iPhone, iPad, or Mac, with her correct Apple Account she will use for Apple Music: If needed see Apple Support's article (link below):
How to: Sign in to your Apple Account on the web or in your device settings - Apple Support
Else if your mom uses an Android phone:
See: Use Family Sharing with Apple Music on Android - Apple Support
Seems that your mom will also need to log-in to Apple Music with her Apple Account for Apple Music to recognise her eligibility.
Eg: One way is to:
Open the Apple Music app and tap Listen Now.
In the top-right corner, tap the photo icon.
Sign in with her Apple Account (usually an email address) and password.
Else: It is likely that if she proceeded to start that new subscriptiion process when asked,
then Apple Music would at some point recognize she is already eligible.
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Re: "Is there a way to connect her to Apple Music remotely,
so that she can use the Family subscription without being asked to pay again?"
Seems your mom would only need to log-in, if Family Sharing includes her.
Everyone gets their own library to which they can add whatever music they prefer.
Eg: to get started:
If there are any previous purchases made with her own Apple Account,
these purchases can be re-downloaded,
or
she can add any music available via Family Sharing :
What to do: If you can't find your family's shared apps and content - Apple Support
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If needed: Apple Music have a Support website online: (info. / support / contact options etc.)
Website: Music - Official Apple Support