There may be more going on, but I suspect you may not have properly erased the drive. If you have properly erased the startup drive, then there will be no OS for the Mac to find when you boot it and I expect it would display a folder with question mark.
The fact that you can reboot the Mac in recovery and are offered the El Capitan OS is good news. You just need to prep the drive properly. If you've been running OS 12 Monterey on that old MBP, the drive is formatted with APFS. Unfortunately, Mac OS 10.11 El Capitan is not APFS aware and the installer for that OS cannot access an APFS volume. You need to reformat the drive with Mac OS Extended (Journaled).
At this point I suggest this:
• Reboot the Mac in recovery using Command-R.
• From the macOS Utilities screen launch Disk Utility.
• In DU, click View > Show All Devices. Select the topmost device in the sidebar - it should be named something similar to "Apple... Media". (Do not select any indented volume below it.) Click Erase and format the drive with Mac OS Extended (Journaled) format and GUID partition scheme. Name the drive "Macintosh HD".
• After reformatting you can now quit DU and launch the Install Mac OS X application on the recovery Utilities screen. Select the newly formatted "Macintosh HD" as the destination for El Capitan and follow the prompts to complete the installation.
Once you have an OS installed, you can proceed to upgrading to Monterey via the normal upgrade paths.
If you can coax the recovery boot to offer a newer OS, you may be able to take advantage of that, but you do need to format the drive properly for whatever OS that is offered.
El Cap 10.11 and Sierra 10.12 require a Mac OS Extended format.
The APFS format may be used when installing macOS High Sierra 10.13.
The APFS format is required when installing macOS Mojave 10.14, macOS Catalina 10.15 and any newer OS on your MBP.
Regarding your recovery boot options, this is what Apple has to say on the subject:
How to reinstall macOS - Apple Support
❝On an Intel-based Mac:
- If you used Command-R to start up from the local Recovery system, you get the current version of the most recently installed macOS.
- If you used Option-Command-R to start up from Internet Recovery, you might get the latest macOS that is compatible with your Mac.
- If you used Shift-Option-Command-R to start up from Internet Recovery, you might get the macOS that came with your Mac, or the closest version still available.❞