elisatems wrote:
You're making a lot of assumptions about what I'm running there.
I'm doing exactly the opposite - expressing my ignorance of how your network is configured.
Why don't you ask questions instead of assuming what I'm doing or not doing?
As I said, I did, but then I deleted them as I was afraid it would be overwhelming. Usually, if I ask someone 3 questions, they'll pick one at random to answer. That's always awkward. Can you imagine how it is when I ask 20?
First, just to clarify: my NFS server settings are the defaults on MacOS, so it's possible that something did change there as I've never made any customizations on the NFS config files, other than my /etc/exports.
As I said, I don't think it's an NFS problem. You are able to connect initially but then the connection goes stale. That strongly indicates that some portion of the link has changed and the other side didn't know about that. There are multiple places in Sequoia's low-level networking settings that will do precisely that.
It's possible that Apple's SMB implementation will handle this situation better. You can test that in about 2 minutes.
It's also possible that some low-level networking default (not NFS) has changed and you can simply change it back. You can test that in about 2 days.
Also: there is no 3rd party security or networking software running on my network, other than on the Arris modem itself. I use the modem's firewall with all external ports blocked. This is all determined by my ISP - I do not have a lot of choice as to networking hardware.
You see? This is what I mean about the twenty questions. You were very specific about 3rd party security or networking software. OK. That's good. But what about built-in software? One of the things that changed in Sequoia was the built-in, useless application firewall. Before Sequoia, it never did anything anyway, and was riddled with bugs, but at least it was fairly benign. But there are new bugs in Sequoia that push the application firewall from merely useless, to a harmful detriment.
I can go on for pages and pages with diagnostic suggestions. But there's nothing I can say that would be more useful than you poking around with the actual devices for a few minutes. I'm just saying that I doubt the problem is anywhere with NFS. I think the problem is a low-level networking change that you can simply undo. If not that, I think it would probably work fine with SMB making no changes. Either way, it would take me longer to type all that than for you to just check and try a few things. And if I'm wrong and the problem is intimately related to Apple's NFS implementation, then it's a total lost cause. SMB is your only option in that case.