I found the Sort by in 6 point type almost grayed out at the bottom of my first message. Looked for it at the very, very bottom twice, before I saw it at the top. Thanks :-) But as I type my reply to you, below this message is an answer to Phil on Aug 4 at 9:23. They just don't get it.
I will dump Apple Devices and Music for sure. Although it was around 20 years ago when I last used iTunes to sync music I still like fewer programs to do the job. Besides I ran into another problem with the new software. I am on a family plan with my son and we have used all of the managed devices, so it was time to remove one. It would let me. For sure ADM is going. Done with that headache.
My MP3tag problem is actually being caused by MusicBrainz. That wasn't around, or I never used it back then. It is changing the name of the songs so the name does not match the tune. Unfortunately it drives me crazy and I have to have it right.
Because I am so old school I had numerous backup copies of my music and I recovered easily.
The reason I got into this pickle is that I found an App named Longplay in the Apple app store. It essentially treats all your albums like old LP albums by showing cover art. It is more about listening and less about fiddling around. It is really great for CarPlay while you are driving. Not much reading required, just pick the picture you like.
Off to undo the Apple Devices and Music and resurrect iTunes.
Thanks for all the help, Fred