Re: "Can't receive mail on iPhone 16 pro max I tried restarting phone nothing changed.
i deleted app but can't get it to reload. I'm not able to think of anything else to try"
See if Apple support's online article (link below) can help:
What to do: If you can't receive email on your iPhone or iPad - Apple Support
If needed: Mail Support website (info / support / contact options etc) : Mail - Official Apple Support
Re: "Anyone else loose their mail?"
As Apple users, like yourself, in the community, we have no access to feedback sent to Apple,
So, unless others reply directly to your post here, we have no way of knowing for sure