Re: I set up assistive access on an iPhone under our family sharing Verizon plan. Now, somehow I can't remember how I was able to see the phone I set up. For example, who is being called, who is being texted, the phone
contact list etc. Where do I find this to monitor?
Am no expert in this area, yet your post to the community deserves some response.
Apple support's article: Understand certain differences in Assistive Access on iPhone - Apple Support
Eg; says:
"Assistive Access apps have been redesigned for cognitive accessibility and include larger text and icons, more focused features, and customizable options. In addition, some features work differently in Assistive Access—
this linked article explains certain important situations where you need to exit Assistive Access."
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Re: " who is being called, who is being texted, the phone contact list etc."
You can scroll down in the above article for Apple support's info. on calls and messages.
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Apple support's video below may be helpful in remembering how assistive access was set up ...
https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_j4-NTg3QsE
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More info: if needed
Assistive Access User Guide - Apple Support ie: has a link to the "Table of Contents" on the Welcome page.