Why can't I control contact photos on my iPhone after the latest update?

The latest update lets others pick their own contact photo, overriding the ones l've carefully chosen based on fond memories or professional necessity. Before, I could simply revert to my selection-now, the other person has to approvemy choice.

Why have I lost control over what displays on my own phone? Why do others get to dictate what I see? This is absurd.

Example: I have client numbers saved, and some have chosen inappropriate photos of themselves. I need a recognizable photo for work, but now my selection won't show up unless they approve it.

I am kindly urging you and the team at Apple to revert course on this as soon as possible.