How can I quickly remove inactive dating app subscriptions from Apple Family Sharing?

True story: So a while back my wife and I split because of the stress and trauma of losing our son. During this period I was extremely lonely and drinking too much and decided to try a couple of dating/hookup apps only to realize that they were pretty useless and thankfully nothing happened because my wife and I decided to come back together and try and mend ourselves together. The problem is, these hookup apps which I checked out during one of the darkest periods of my life, were still on my phone! I had unsubscribed and they're inactive but Apple keeps your inactive subscriptions in plane sight including on family sharing. Needless to say I am terrified at the possibility of my wife seeing these apps in spite of nothing ever coming of them and I am going to have to HIDE my phone when I feel I should be opening up to her more. Apple is forcing me to stay hidden until these apps disappear if they ever do! There absolutely needs to be a way to delete these faster! It feels like I'm being shamed!

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