The traceroute tool is better than is ping at finding which router is the last in the path to the destination.
Entirely remove the VPN app too, because VPNs always and fundamentally must mess with IP routing. You might need to restart after removing the VPN app. Yes, some VPNs don’t ever fully turn themselves off.
All network traffic (including traceroute and pings) originating from outside your NAT’d private network will usually be blocked by the gateway box, if that is where the traffic is arising.
In this case, with traffic originating locally, the VPN app (or some other similar add-on security app) is the most likely culprit.