Apple Calendar not syncing with zoom

My Apple Calendar was always an option to put my Zoom meetings on. Now it will only to to Google Calendar which I dislike intensely. I think Zoom is trying to force me to use and pay for Zoom calendars. How do I get Zoom to put my meetings on the Apple calendar? Also, my invites show family as a third member on the zoom call and I cannot change it as much as I have tried. HELP!