Show Notifications button in Bluetooth gone

I followed directions from a post from Feb. 2024.

Siri and Search...Announce New Messages

Unfortunately, then it says Announce New Messages When Connected to CarPlay.

My issue is that I used to have messages read out loud to me in my car without being connected to CarPlay. There was a Show Notifications button on the Bluetooth connection for my car. It's no longer there.

Was it a deliberate decision by Apple to only have access to out loud Messages if using CarPlay? Or is there another way around this without the Show Notifications button?

I actually called Apple Support about this. The rep said he would "check with our engineers" about the missing button and get back to me. He never did.

Any suggestions? Thank you.