Apple TV Remote Volume Control
My apple TV suddenly does not allow my phone to control the volume on one of the apple TVs in my house. My wife's iphone IS able to still control the volume.
Things I've tried:
1) update apple tv
2) update iphone
3) remove and reconnect both phones as remotes
4) factory reset apple tv
5) reset wi-fi
6) turn "change with buttons" on in my iphone
7) factory reset television and turn the CEC audio control back on
8) unplug and replug all wires
9) swap audio optic wire and just use HDMI on my stereo
10) Hard reset iphone
**Note** during this entire process, my wife maintains the ability to control the volume using her iphone as a remote while mine is not able to control volume
Apple TV 4K, tvOS 17