I apple payed someone 2 days ago but the buy it sent it went through but they didn’t receive it and it is still pending in my bank account

It auto cancels after a couple days.

>> How to cancel or dispute a payment

1. Open the Messages app, then open the conversation and tap the payment.
2. Your Apple Cash card will open in the Wallet app. Under Latest Transactions, tap the payment, then tap it again.
3. Tap Cancel Payment.

If you don't see Cancel Payment, the person has already accepted the payment. Try asking the recipient to send the money back to you instead.

It might take 1-3 business days for the money to be refunded, depending on your bank or card issuer.

Apple Cash person to person payments are just like any other private transaction between two people, so only send and receive money with people you know. If you have questions or concerns about a transaction, please contact us.<<

Send and receive money with Apple Cash - Apple Support

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Does it say pending in your Messages app on your iPhone?