This problem is not limited to your Mac Studio. macOS has had this problem with multiple displays as far back as 10.14 Mojave and it has never been resolved.
It might help to send Feedback, but don't hold your breath.
Feedback - Mac Studio - Apple
Feedback - macOS - Apple
I have used multiple displays for years and use a few work-arounds to limit the need to rearrange my work space.
1) Only Restart when required for macOS updates.
2) Disable Mission Control Spaces, ScreenSaver and Lock-Screen.
3) Disable Automatic Computer Sleep and only allow the displays to (sleep) turn off.