Hi Dcjsimons01,
It is possible to adjust how often your calendars update through settings. From the support article If your iCloud Contacts, Calendars, or Reminders won’t sync:
"Change how often your calendars update:
- Tap Settings, then tap Calendar.
- Tap Sync.
- If All Events is selected, choose a specific timeframe instead, like Events 1 Month Back. If a specific timeframe is selected, choose All Events instead.
- Return to your Home Screen.
- Wait a few minutes, then open the Calendar app. Tap the Calendars tab, and swipe down to refresh.
Since the iCloud Birthdays calendar updates daily, changes to birthdays might not appear in the Calendars app until the next day."
You can also tap Settings, Accounts, then Fetch New Data to access Fetch and Push settings. Not all services support Push, and the Fetch interval can be configured at the bottom of that screen.
Regards.