Focus Status won’t share to others in Messages

My Focus status worked maybe a year ago and then stopped after a certain update. My Focus mode is turned on, it’s shared across all devices, there are no allowed apps, and everything that seems like it should be toggled on is.

I have been testing this with another device I own, but I see no notification that my focus status is turned on. This is frustrating because another friend, also with an updated iPhone, has a focus that is that works.

What do I need to do, can anyone help?