re: I still don't understand how pics "will eventually be lost" without me actually deleting them on my laptop on purpose...how does that happen?
That statement was referring to an iPhone Backup to a computer. Those backups are not stored in your Photos Library. As described in Locate backups of your iPhone, iPad, and iPod touch - Apple Support
they are
To find a list of your backups:
- Click the magnifier
in the menu bar. - Type or copy and paste this: ~/Library/Application Support/MobileSync/Backup/
- Select the Backup folder under Folders.
There are not an unlimited number of backups there. If you backup and then delete photos and then backup again, eventually the backup that had the photos will be deleted. If I remember correctly, there are only 2 old versions that are kept.
re: I'm still transferring (usually when I do a phone backup) my new iphone pics to my laptop but I don't want to transfer all of my phone pics to the laptop as a backup as I've deleted a lot of the pics on my phone.
Sorry, but I still don't understand what you mean by that. If you've deleted a lot of pics on your phone, you couldn't transfer them to the laptop even if you wanted to.
re: So, I duplicated my mac laptop photo library and renamed the duplicate file, so I have a second copy of all my pics on my laptop, just in the case when I backup my phone if anything goes amiss I will have a full backup of all my pics in a different file....
I also have a separate drive with a backup of my laptop.
Does is this a good way to preserve all my laptop pics?
Yes. One thing that it doesn't address is an offsite copy; i.e., in case of theft or fire destroying both the laptop and external drive.