Hey there and welcome to Apple Support Communities Loek_sr,
We can certainly understand your concern and can help provide some insight.
We recommend checking out these steps on how to change your home location and see if that helps and matches up with your procedure.
" Add or change your home address in Maps on your iPhone or iPad
If you need to update an old home address, you can do it in Contacts or Maps.
Set and edit your home or work address in iOS 16 or iPadOS 16
- In the Maps app, scroll to Favorites and tap Add.
- Begin to type the address that you want to set as Home or Work, then tap the address when it's available.
- Scroll down to Type and tap My Home or My Work. If you haven't set your Home or Work address before, tap Update to save it to your Contact Card.
- Tap Done.

You can also set or edit a home or work address in the Contacts app:
- In the Contacts app, tap My Card.
- Tap Edit.
- Tap Add Address then type in your information.
- Tap the label next to your address and choose an option like home, work, school, or other.
- Tap Done.
Add, save, and edit other favorite places in Maps on iOS "
For additional information, check out this link: Add or change your home address in Maps on your iPhone or iPad - Apple Support
These steps will help ensure your device is working with ease and can fix common issues like the ones you’re experiencing.
Kindest regards!