Can’t see the updates on shared notes
I have a shared notes with my friend who had an Iphone Xr. it took so long for the shared notes to update on my device while on her it just took a couple of days. How can i fix this problem? i tried to on and off the notes from iCloud and it still don’t update fast, usually it will took weeks before i see the update. Our ios version is the same. How can we fix this problem? can you please help.
iPad mini (6th generation)