I have mac Monterey and control center says not compatible and wont open

Give this a try: boot into Safe Mode according to How to use safe mode on your Mac and test to see if the problem persists. Reboot normally and test again.

NOTE 1: Safe Mode boot can take up to 3 - 5 minutes as it's doing the following; 

• Verifies your startup disk and attempts to repair directory issues, if needed

• Loads only required kernel extensions (prevents 3rd party kernel/extensions from loading)

• Prevents Startup Items and Login Items from opening automatically

• Disables user-installed fonts 

• Deletes font caches, kernel cache, and other system cache files

NOTE 2: if you have a wireless keyboard with rechargeable batteries connect it with its charging cable before booting into Safe Mode. This makes it act as a wired keyboard as will insure a successful boot into Safe Mode.

Appears you have a Brother Printer...

https://help.brother-usa.com/app/answers/detail/a_id/167003/~/controlcenter-needs-to-be-updated.---macos-10.15-catalina

https://help.brother-usa.com/app/answers/detail/a_id/150551/~/download-and-install-brother-iprint%26scan---windows-or-macintosh-computer

For iOS...

https://apps.apple.com/us/app/brother-iprint-scan/id382775642

As you may know, different year and model Macs can accept and run different Mac operating systems. (This is all detailed on Apple's web site.) The question we would ask is what year and model Mac do you have? Without that information there is little we can offer.