Disk Utility First Aid: The repair cannot be performed because one of more volumes are mounted (-69565)
I am running an iMac 27" 3.1GHz with 8 gig ram. I bought it mid 2020 and I believe it is running Catalina. The other day I clicked ok when it asked if I wanted to update. Was busy and thinking was for the minor updates the do for security and such but I think it tried to update to the newer OS. Well it has been frozen for 3 days now. I have tried safe mode but it will not boot up and just shuts off when I hold down CMND S. When I do CMND R it boots and freezes at loading bar and says 27 minutes remaining but stays there for hours. I've rebooted into disk utility and tried reinstalling the OS and when that is done it restarts and goes back to the loading bar and freezes up. I also get to the activation lock and unlock it and goes to recovery window but says "There are no users on lathe volume to recover".
I have a Time Machine back up do I need to erase the whole thing and restore from Time Machine. Do I erase just the Data drive, the HD drive, the HD Volume drive, Container or the Apple SSD Media.
iMac 27″, macOS 13.0