Hello martine bouillir,
It sounds like you have a question regarding notification settings for your Messenger app, right? Have you tried to enabled that notification and turn it off again?
Since it is a third party app, you may want to reach out to the app developer for more information:
How to contact an app developer - Apple Support
"Contact the developer of a macOS app
- Open the App Store on your Mac.
- Click the sign-in button
or your photo. - A list of apps appears. Click the app that you want. If you can't find the app, use the search bar.
- The app's product page appears. Click Support or App Support. If you don't see Support or App Support, make sure that you're signed in with the correct Apple ID."
Regards