Cannot add (name). You can only add contacts who are using iMessage

Trying to add myself as a recovery contact on my husbands new iphone13. Since we are part of family shat, it says it should add me automatically, but it didn’t. My name comes up, but when I check it and try to continue, I get the error message “cannot add (name ). You can only add contacts who are using a message”


I do!! And I am using Os15. ? What does it mean using iMessage???? I text all the time!!!

iPhone 13

Posted on Oct 9, 2022 03:58 PM

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Posted on Oct 9, 2022 04:53 PM

no, we have separate apple ids and passwords, but we do family sharing. my name popped up immediately when trying to set up recovery- but I dont understand why it think I cant imessage- any ideas??


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Nov 1, 2022 07:36 AM in response to Cherylholz

Same issue here. My husband and I both have newer iphones and we have always been on imessage. He was able to add me as recovery, but when I try to add him it says cannot add him 'can only add contacts who are using imessage'. I have turned imessage on and off for both of us, rebooted... etc. Nothing as worked. Did anyone find a resolution?

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