i want to remove the organizer for my family sharing. but only the organizer can do it

Thanks for reaching out, DueGlass.

It sounds like you're trying to remove the organizer from your family group. We can help.

You can follow these steps to Leave Family Sharing:

Remove yourself from a family group

Any family member age 13 or older* can remove themselves from a family group. If you have Screen Time turned on for your account, the family organizer must remove you. On your iPhone, iPad, or iPod touch:

1. Go to Settings.

2. Tap your name, then tap Family Sharing. 

3. Tap your name.

4. Tap Stop Using Family Sharing.

Additionally, keep in mind the following:

When the family organizer turns off Family Sharing, all family members are removed from the group at the same time. If there are children under 13* in the family group, the family organizer can't disband the group until they move the child to another Family Sharing group.

Hope that helps!

Take care.