my iPad says connect to iTunes, but I don't have it on my Mac. how do I reset ?
I try to download and it will not let me because of the version of iOS I have. I
iPad (3rd gen) Wi-Fi
The iTunes app on Macs was discontinued when macOS Catalina was released. See: What happened to iTunes? - Apple Support
On Macs running Catalina or later you use Finder instead. See instructions in If you forgot your iPad passcode - Apple Support
